There are women who breastfeed, and there are women who don’t. I’m not going into pro’s and con’s here (or a debate on breastfeeding 4 year olds, or public displays of breasts)—but suffice to say, if you’ve been pregnant, you have undoubtedly found yourself signed up for two things associated with the letter “L”: Lamaze and La Leche League training—otherwise known as breastfeeding 101. You may have your own opinions about both practices surrounding the joy of childbirth, but no matter. You will be highly “encouraged” to attend these classes.
Encouragement to be a “good mother” is always good; but unfortunately if you decline attendance—or worse—attend but voice some reservations or lack of desire to follow the script, you feel yourself being labelled…identified…duly noted…as the dissenter in class. Other moms-to-be will cast disparaging glances in your direction like you JUST. DON’T. GET IT. And you begin to internalize the negative vibes and start to question yourself.
God bless Cindy Crawford and her at-home, no meds deliveries. I am not Cindy. And I knew that no amount of huff-huff-puff-puff timed breathing while tightly gripping a pillow was going to delude me into thinking I could breathe through the pain. Nurse!! Where’s that &#@%ing epidural I ordered up!??
Breastfeeding was a different story. So many studies done to back up its healthiness. The benefits of bonding. The primal back-to-nature, this-is-what-it’s-all-about thing. Reduced rates of viral infection. Smart babies. On and on. Throw some Baby Einstein in and we’ll be off the WISC IQ scoring charts! Ok, sign me up! Pump for $200? Sure—I’ll take one!
Then…uh-oh…baby’s here and…NA-DA.
All the planning gone to hell. Why? A little thing called “complications”. (Not epidural-related for you Lamaze lovers out there). And so begins the guilt. The what-ifs. The what-now’s? Is my baby already underweight??
La Leche will offer you a figurative shoulder to cry on, along with some resources and guidance. And some well-meaning websites will share with you your “options” to get that milk flowing. One option: Reglan. Reglan’s called a “prescription galactagogue”. Funny thing about Reglan though (and any other prescription claiming to stimulate milk production): it hasn’t been approved by the FDA for such use. Reglan’s side effects have been found to include stimulation of milk production—but the drug can only be offered off-label for that purpose.
Another little thing about Reglan. There aren’t any studies out there to show what the affect of taking Reglan is on your baby. So as you take Reglan to get that milk flowing, and then your baby drinks that milk, is it safe? Who knows?
I don’t want my baby to be an experiment simply because of my over-zealousness in trying to “do the right thing”. Nor do I want to take a drug for its side effects. I’ll leave the “pharma parties” to the teenagers (and that damn well better not be my own, of course).
If you look on youTube, you’ll find a couple of videos where parents have posted a clip of their baby with the question, “does this look like Tardive Dyskinesia?” In one instance, the baby (not in utero, but after birth and with some regurgitation issues) had been taking Reglan. What parent wants to find themselves questioning whether they did the right thing—particularly when it comes to giving your baby a drug?
I never did take any of the suggested drugs or otherwise to re-ignite the milk-producing glands in my breasts. And, thankfully, my ob/gyn is completely non-alarmist—his first words to me were, “Don’t worry, your daughter will be fine.” And he introduced me to formula. By the way, the next time around, I was again offered the option to “artificially” stimulate milk production, but I had twins. You do the math. UPS—where’s my &#@%ing formula delivery?!?
There is an entire allied healthcare profession out there, dedicated to assisting mothers with whatever breastfeeding challenges they may have — including an evaluation of medications used by mom (for whatever reason) and its impact on uman milk, and the baby. I'm not talking about mother-to-mother support for breastfeeding, such as that so ably offered by groups like La Leche League. I'm talking clinical experts on human lactation: the International Board Certifeid Lactatin Consultant." What a shame the OB/GYN didn't mention this option. Click the "Find a Lactation Consultant" option at http://www.ilca.org (the international professional assn for IBCLCs) to search by country, state or zip.
Hi Liz, Thank you for sharing this information. To clarify, La Leche was not the resource that provided me with my options for breastfeeding–it was the medical staff at the hospital (and I did speak about it w/my ob/gyn) who spoke with me about how and whether to re-start my milk production. And at that point–given my complications which had me in ICU for several days, it was a personal choice to not breastfeed. I have to say also that while it is a proven fact that there are many benefits to breastmilk, all of my children are healthy (not prone to colds, etc), and thriving–thankfully. The decision to breastfeed is obviously a very personal one and my only hope is that women who make the choice to do so (and who require some help) first explore all their options and not do so out of overzealousness brought on by guilt as a result of groups like La Leche et al; and should a drug–like Reglan–be a mother's choice, the benefits need to clearly outweigh the risks. I am not convinced they do. Again–thanks for sharing this info with other readers!
I know someone in the medical profession who was and is very against using Reglan fo mothers or babies. She has seen the terrible reactions it has in babies. Being in her positon she would get fire to speak up. what is happening to our medical professionals hurting someone or a baby and FDA tuns their back. Is everyone being paid off.I know of so many things happening to people to damage or kill them an there is no where to turn to bring this to the public. The media is to busy talking about Obama, they better look into some of what I know. I don't watch Fox anymore they are getting boring same old stuff.Jean
Hi Jean, Thank you for your comment (we've also just sent you a private email). We completely agree with you–between moms who are looking to improve low-breast milk production, and babies who are put on Reglan for regurg issues–particularly those that may be prescribed Reglan off-label for an extended period of time, the effects are not fully and clearly known. And as with any drug, there are risks involved…